Saturday, September 14, 2013

Filipino in Indonesia

Being a Filipino in Indonesia is quite a challenge. Especially for first timers who are trying to adjust to the culture of the country. Anyway, there is no really big difference with the Philippine culture, but here are the few things you must remember that is very important when you go to Indonesia.

 First, the language, you have to know the basic conversational skills in Indonesia. It is best to know the numbers first because you will be using that most of the time in talking with the locals; like in buying, the transportation fare and even asking for directions. It is also good that you know the translation of left and right because if you are asking for directions most of the people are not used to speaking English, so you really have to know some words too.

Second, the food, you have to get used to spicy food because whether you like it or not they will serve you food with lots of chili. You have to be very specific when you say that you only want less chili, because less for them is still MORE. Better to say no chili or just put it at the side so it is up to you to put the amount of chili sauce you like.

 Third, crossing the street, in the Philippines we are used to being left sided in all our road structures. If you notice that the Filipino drivers are at the left side of the car, but in Indonesia the road plans are all right sided. You can see that the drivers are at the right side of the car. I was even wondering before why the cars have no drivers, only to found out that they are at the right, because we, Filipinos are accustomed that the drivers are at the left. There are also few pedestrian lanes only, so if you want to cross the street you have to look for an open space in the middle of the road; that is the part where you can cross. If you still want to look for pedestrian lane because you want to feel safe in crossing and you ask the locals to show it to you, they may not understand you because they call it here as “zebra line”. In crossing the street also, you should not base everything on the traffic lights because the traffic lights here are just an option for the drivers. You know what I mean; they will still drive fast even the traffic lights are turned red. So what is the use of following the traffic lights? Just be very careful when you cross the street because most of the drivers don’t mind.

These are just few tips that I can give you for the moment. All of these things are from my own experiences. You may have a different view once you go to Indonesia but this will be very helpful to you especially on the things you need to consider. Have fun travelling!

The September I Have Known

It was the middle of September, the first month of what everybody calls the “Ber Months”. You know what I meant; it is almost Christmas, the most a waited time of Christians. I am one of those who are really excited to celebrate that event. Every time the calendar turns to this month I can already feel the holiday itch in me. I am starting to imagine how I will celebrate my Christmas this year. It is my time to rejoice remembering that it was the birthday of the messiah. Alright, call me a Jesus freak, but I admit how I love my lord so much and that is also the reason why I am excited for Christmas. I am planning to extend my celebration to other people especially those in need. I am a Sunday catechist before, so I am already setting plans to celebrate it with children that I taught to make them feel the essence of Christmas.

          How I can imagine what Christmas looks like in the Philippines. The “Parol” or the Filipino Christmas lantern hanging on the windows of every houses, Christmas carols sang by children going house to house with their tambourines made up of cola caps, busy shoppers buying Christmas decors and putting up their Christmas trees, people greeting “Merry Christmas” as early as September, and the feeling of holiday rush is in the air. Well, that was Philippines as what I can remember since it’s been months that I am away from my country. I am now just reminiscing memories of my country. How happy I am to be their enjoying every moment of this holiday itch with my family, friends and relatives. But I know this time will not be one of the Christmases that I usually been experiencing. The Filipino Christmas will just be part of my imagination. All I have now are memories of the Christmas that I have known.

          As far as everyone would know, I will celebrate my Christmas alone; away from my family. Early this morning, I rode the “Angkot” going to work.  It passed by a small market with busy people. Along the way, I smelled the scent of newly baked bread which gave me a nostalgic feeling of my home. I remembered way back to my hometown in Masbate where early in the morning the bakeshop which is a few meters away from our house is baking bread and the scent of it mixed up with the provincial morning air. How I love to think of how it feels like to experience Christmas to the country which I call HOME.

          I never regret the decision I made to leave the country and work abroad. But still there is this part of me that longs to what I am used to. I am still a Filipino by heart and by blood, so I cannot hide nor keep this feeling of longing to the place where I came from. I have fully adjusted to the culture of foreign land to where I am now but this heart of mine still belongs to my motherland. For me, Christmas will never be the same as the one I celebrated in Philippines.